Even if you are a dad on duty

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you still can't help it, it is automatic.

In Brasov, Transylvania, Romania

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[found-world.livejournal.com]

Could you tell if he were looking at the women in blue, or at something else out of frame in that direction? Or maybe he was more obvious about looking at them just prior to this photo.

[topum.livejournal.com]

He was looking at them. Maybe I caught him already taking his gaze off them, or they already made a step forward, I can't tell now. But he was looking at them. And I think he did not want to be very obvious about it either.

[found-world.livejournal.com]

I believe it. When I was at a gym a number of years ago, a man was looking like this at a woman: 8 O or maybe 8D

Supposed to be wide eyes and a huge grin... because she was facing away, and I was thinking how obvious he was being about it.

[topum.livejournal.com]

This happens all the time. And the first split second is usually shameless because it is pure instinct before people realise what they are doing and start managing it (trying not to be obvious or jut stop). I am surprised the last time you saw this was a number of years ago.

[found-world.livejournal.com]

Have you ever observed women looking at men in such a fashion?

[topum.livejournal.com]

Yes but much less often. And not quite in the same way, they do it a bit differently I think.

[firecat]

Women are socialized to be a lot more subtle about it, in my experience.