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I understand the part about presenting a particular image to the world of course but if it interferes with the real thing at some very important moments in one's life I do not see why one would choose that image presenting over that moment. Like when my first son is born I would not take to hold him but will be shouting at someone about lighting and putting some make up on me. Or with the wedding, I proposed to the woman I want to marry and she said "yes" and then we go "Now let's fake the whole thing! Yeah!".