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I don't really get it either (but I've also never been married). I've seen otherwise rational people make crazy decisions when trying to plan a wedding because of things like this, though. My guess is that some of it is that, especially if you've never been married before, you look to others for advice, and some of what's out there is just insanity. Probably some of it too is the focus on social media and the obsession with documenting and presenting a particular image to the world.